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Ruby’s Birthday!

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Totally Married Podcast

Episode 53

Today is Ruby’s birthday so Andy and Elizabeth discuss the festivities as well as answer listener questions about dating as a teen, whether or not it’s necessary to police our fantasies and if threesomes are good… or great! (to quote a writer – inner 🙂 Enjoy!

Photo by Nate Michaux!


Alex says:

In response to the gay caller, Andy is spot on. For me personally, gay clubs are THE WORST. I think a lot has to do with where he lives? I live in the middle of Ohio, our closest gay club is a garish 1980s pit.

Finding his scene is a big part of it. His friends mean well but obviously not progressing at his speed.n The sooner the better. I was just like him at 19. I am 24 now and like saying I’m gay is not weird at all.

You don’t have to be the stereotypical gay!!!

Megan says:

I am in a totally different situation but I found that helped me and my husband find a group of friends after we moved. I never thought that there would be groups in my area(because it’s not near a big city) but we found a group with similar interests.

The groups usually center around an activity or interest so maybe he can check that out. May not necessarily be a group specifically to meet other guys, but maybe just getting involved in other activities will lead to something.

I also liked it because it doesn’t seem shady like using craiglist or other websites to find out what’s going on in the area. Hope he keeps you guys posted!

Christian says:

I am going to college and that was the biggest step forward in coming to terms with the whole thing. I live in LA but I went to Irvine for school. I found great great friends who really made me feel comfortable with the whole thing. I can see that they have the best intentions and just wanted me to feel good, but I kinda just want to take it a little slower. Unfortunately, the costs got way too high and I had to take a semester off and enroll in CC classes. Even though I live in LA, my parents and the people I grew up with aren’t entirely comfortable with the gay thing. That’s why it’s a little harder for me to come out right now. Anyway, thanks for the advice Alex and Elizabeth and Andy! You guys are the best! 🙂

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