I thought you podcast was great today. Some very really issues! For the girl who was having fertility issues I would say try to think it like this. Yes, this is taking you a really long time and it SUCKS but at the end those 3-4 years will seem like nothing when you have a lifetime with a child. You have to try to remember that there is an end in site and that is a baby! (I should mention this is all coming from firsthand experience.)
I completely agree with what Elizabeth and Andy said about being able to talk about it with someone. If you don’t want to always talk to a spouse about it, try a sibling or a parent. Someone who you feel comfortable with saying whatever you feel even if you think it is irrational.
Ironically I often feel like it makes me feel better to hang out with some friends who have kids. Kids are so funny and full of life. They always put me in a better mood and remind me of what is to come.
I hope that helps!
Love you Elizabeth and Andy